You

Are

Magic

Relationship, Intimacy, and Empowerment Coach

TheHelpfulHedonist@gmail.com

Hedonism:

Hedonism refers to a family of theories, all of which have in common that pleasure plays a central role. Psychological or motivational hedonism claims that human behavior is determined by desires to increase pleasure and to decrease pain

Some definitions state the pursuit of pleasure is the highest good.

Some say, “The pursuit of pleasure is an ethical principle.”

I say, “What is life if you’re not enjoying it?”
I am passionate about helping people find pleasure within the world and within themselves.
My idea of pleasure is a life that you want to wake up for. Pleasure is feeling bountiful, regulated, safe, and abundant. It’s being able to hold your deepest, darkest, scariest parts with the knowing that you got you and it will all be okay.

Pleasure is literally leaning into our delicious carnal desires, sexually and emotionally.

Pleasure is meeting yourself where you’re at and no longer trying to force yourself into changing. Rather meeting yourself where you’re at which enables the deepest forms of change.

Pleasure is how we build and nurture the relationship with ourselves. This is where alllll the juicy yummy delicious parts are built from.

Pleasure is choosing that you want to be a fuck yes to your life, and that it’s up to you which is the most beautiful and scary thing you can decide.

I’m here to support you in the pleasures of your life. I want you to bask in them!

You owe it to yourself.

I Believe in You

There is a beautiful fire waiting inside of you to emerge.

Close your eyes,

tune inside,

feel it flow through your veins.

You’re in there.

Waiting to be unleashed.

Waiting to feel free.

Reaching up to grasp your dreams,

You end up grasping yourself.

Let me guide you there.

At your essence, You are Magic.

You are Possibility.

You are Infinite.

You are Free.

I was once where you might be now. Giving away my power to other people, feeling like I didn’t have control of myself, my life, or my situation. I was stuck in a loop of feeling helpless that I just couldn’t quite figure out how to get out of, even with all of the time and attention I put into “fixing” myself.

I invested time, money, and energy into truly figuring out how the heck to actually heal myself. And while healing isn’t linear and it’s an ongoing process, I am so much happier and more stable then I’ve ever been.

What I found was incredible. I found myself. I was busy striving for a former version of myself, which simply isn’t possible. It’s about welcoming in the new and ever changing versions of yourself with open arms. Truly integrating myself, truly loving myself and my process, making space with softness instead of trying to force myself to be different. Gorgeous gifts.

It can be a scary realization that you’re in control, but it’s liberating and the process is SO so worth it.

I have choice, autonomy, I don’t feel trapped and helpless anymore.
There is no greater gift then to find sanctuary within yourself, especially because the world can be chaotic.

This is the gift I want to impart to you.

To build a sanctuary inside your own head too.

Most importantly, I want you to know I believe in you.

You have innate power and magic inside you that I want to help excavate.

xoxo